So in this entry I choose to blab about my peers, people and changes that happens....
PEERS. One word that seems to freak people out a times. Well currently scaring the hell out of me now. Let's just say that they play a major role in a teens life - and I am a teen. It's weird. No matter how much I try to convince myself to hold on to a character that doesn't care about what her peers think about, it's almost impossible. People known as your peers can be the people you Love, Hate or just Love to Hate. No matter what every time any of my peers are going through a crisis. The first thing they would do is confront a friend and ask them not to tell anyone else. Why? Because the outcome of it is just enigmatic. You can never guess what will happen. Sometimes you think they'll hate you but it turns out they're okay with the fact you did what you did. Other times you think they'll be fine and they go at you like monsters hungry for a prey. Talk about drama. Although, life is no fun without drama now is it? Staying in a boarding school, there's drama every single day. You could even be the star of that episode sometimes. It almost resembles the drama that goes on in 90210 - without the drugs, sex and blackmails. There's the mean girl or girls, their boyfriends, girls who just want to do things the right ways, guys who act like jerks, the dreamy jocks and those who just want to get this period of life over with as quickly as they can.
So moving on. PEOPLE. People = personalities. A lot of different personalities. You have the angels, the b**** who won't shut up, the perfect people, the pothole mouthed friend, the carefree person and the popular group to name a few. Putting people in a room and hoping that they all like each other is impossible. Yes, I know. We already know that. I think it's weird. Why can't you try to compromise on each other's personalities and opinions? Try to accept each other? Sure, at some point you have to point out a few flaws that you hope they can change because you can't tolerate it anymore but you can't mould a person to become someone you really, really like. The "Perfect Friend " won't exist. There's bound to be flaws.To live with each other you have to learn to accept them. That's what I tried and so far it worked - although I have to admit some people are getting on my nerves. My parents always remind me, " Don't try to hate people and people will TRY to not hate you". I feel embarrassed every time I talk about someone I feel angry at and I start saying how much I hate them because of what my parents said. They are right. Hating someone is a waste of time and it could end up biting you in the back in the end. You don't want enemies. Well at least I don't. So in conclusion: Accept people.
People say the only constant thing in life is CHANGE. All of us are scared of change, whether we admit it or not. Changes occur all the time physically, emotionally and mentally. Our body changes as we get older, our personality changes too. So does our feelings towards someone. Sometimes we don't realise we're changing. We're more aware of changes that occur around us.The people and surroundings. That's why sometimes we need to sit and think for a second. "Have I changed?", and the answer is always yes. Even if it's the slightest change. (Suddenly tired of typing)
That's all I guess..... Bye!! ^_^
